The price you pay..............

They say "it is only lonely at the top"..........yeah true..........but does that mean we should always try to be surrounded by people for the fear of being left alone, while other find it difficult to connect with you because of your position...........and it may be possible your intrinsic nature propels you to be more comfortable with yourself than anybody else.......also sometimes culprits are your goals and dreams which make you too busy that when you have time, nobody remains there who can share that joy with you...............but actually what are these dreams? don't you think, being happy with whatever we have and what we want to do with rest of our life is the best dream (it is difficult to be happy about your present and future simultaneously.....a difficult goal........I guess).........and our aim should be to be happy perpetually.......everyday and every moment.........and we need to see how it is possible while taking into consideration our nature............what is it that makes me truly happy..........is spending time with friends/family make me happy or doing my work................or both depending on the needs.........and is switching between the two so smooth or is it difficult.........means whether your loved ones are able to appreciate your business with your work and they are always there with open arms to welcome you without letting you feel guilty about being busy..............I feel very few will appreciate/understand this need of belonging to them............I'm fortunate to have my sisters.......yes, many times it becomes important to clarify your case, but they are very trivial issues...........a strong relationship requires a strong foundation, and once you know that it is there then it is just a small repair work that is needed now and then...............after all, like any other perishable thing in this world, relationships have their own requirements and needs continuous nourishment to remain healthy...........but roots should be deep.................and having just a single strong relationship is good enough to lead a good life..........isn't it?.........particularly, when you know your most valuable asset is your time and you want to be spare with its use........I think that emotional security which comes along with this, is all worth it.........and that seems to be a small price you pay to escape that dreaded loneliness while chasing your dreams.............